Where to begin
Somewhere nobody needs you
Not in the pool, not at breakfast, not in the corridor at seven in the morning. This is a short shelf on purpose. Plenty of houses have an adults-only spa floor inside a family hotel, a pleasant thing but a different one. The children are still at the next table. These two turn nobody away at the spa door because there is nobody to turn away, and you can hear it. If you have spent a decade being available to somebody, start here.